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AskMe: How to become an eccentric (or just look like one)

Suggest eccentricities for me to adopt | Ask MetaFilter

From a fun AskMe thread:

In my quest to become more distinctive, I'm looking for suggestions of harmless eccentricities to adopt. Who better than the MeFi hive mind to provide them? Anecdotes of eccentric folk you've known in the past welcome.

This reminds me of that stage where teenage girls randomly start to affect a terrible british accent, or when college freshmen suddenly stop wearing shoes and take up raw foods and the shakuhachi. Of course, this is not to say that I haven't had ideas of my own.

’Fess up: what was your goofiest affectation and what made you stop it?

Clarification (2006-07-15 10:20:20): The "In my quest..." portion above is a quotation from the link that is referenced; it's not actually me asking for help to (God forbid) become more eccentric. This confused some people, and, well, I regret your confusion if you have any and hope this clarification helps. -- The Management

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You are never more invisible...

You are never more invisible than when you are in the 8th or 9th grade so it's a very fertile time for the development of harmless eccentricities, born of both a yearning to be noticed and a certainty that no one's looking. That's why in the 8th grade, I decided to "become" lefthanded. As a naturally righthanded person, I felt it would be much more interesting to be lefthanded so I just began behaving as a lefthanded person. I want to tell you, this is not easy. You have to think about it all the time and, of course, eat and write and engage in a bunch of other small motor activities. This affectation went on for a few years until one day I realized that I wasn't thinking about it anymore and I had pretty much become lefthanded. THAT freaked me out. I am righthanded now.

 
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