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Mindfulness: The practice of being "here"
Merlin Mann | Apr 7 2006
As I mentioned in a recent Lifehacker interview with Matt, I've been casting about for a good way to work in my newfound interest in mindfulness, or the ostensibly Buddhist practice of bringing your attention and focus back to the present moment, primarily through breathing and awareness. Well, here you go: one rank Western novice's collection of blurbs and excerpts on an ancient (yet oddly timely) method for easing yourself back into this moment -- any day, at any time, and in anything you choose to do. Mindfulness is this and here
Just seeing
Being here for this
"Real life" mindfulness
So, why here?The question will naturally arise: what does all this stuff have to do with manila folders, Getting Things Done, Quicksilver, and the rest of the usual smorgasbord on 43F? And I'll confess that my answer for today is "I have pretty much no idea." I do know that the more time I spend observing how people improve their decision-making at home and at work, the clearer it is to me that they are each developing a more cogent understanding of what's "really going on" in their lives -- they're not being driven by some unseen motor to stay busy or overstimulated for its own strangely modest rewards. For some people this might mean the ability to quickly re-prioritize on a busy day. For others it's reflected in the calm concentration that can come from not checking email for an hour. And for a great many it's the astoundingly simple realization -- that obvious moment of realization -- that this task and all of the others waiting behind it can just wait until tomorrow if it means I get to go home right now and enjoy an evening with my family. It means reacting to real reality rather than always dancing the manic watusi demanded by the ten-thousand monkeys in your head. Over the next little while, I'll be returning to the subject of mindfulness in sometimes overt and sometimes orthogonal ways, sharing some ideas about how people are finding its place in medicine, mental health, physical and health improvements, and -- yes -- even in the context of personal productivity. But even (or especially) when decoupled from its practical role in solving any given problem, mindfulness has much self-evident value all by itself. If you never learn to be here for this particular moment, you'll remain a sleepy captive to every anxiety, fantasy, or unintentional habit that's ever popped into your life. And that, my friends, is a crappy way to go through life. 50 Comments
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I practice yoga with some...Submitted by andyschm (not verified) on April 8, 2006 - 11:33pm.
I practice yoga with some regularity, which obviously a deep culture of mindfulness. There are several techniques used in poses which can be easily applied to any life situation. The first that I would mention is attention to unintended interactions. Many poses don't require the shoulders to be engaged (i.e. they should be relaxed), but when things get uncomfortable one tends to tense the shoulders in response. So you check in every once in a while. What are my shoulders doing right now? Are they tense? What does this tension have to do with what I am doing right now? Nothing. Relax. Now, the deeper version of this is, what is my mind doing right now? Am I feeling that "Is This It?", and we might also recommend practicing regular meditation to build that mental muscle. But in my estimation it is much harder to achieve the goal of mindfulness by going this route, its like jumping into the deep end of the pool. Because meditation is a purely mental excersize, it is often difficult to feel what is going on, direct feedback is extremely rare. Its also very abstract, and lots of gurus who have mastered this end of the pool like to say all sorts of mysterious things about it that are hard to interpret. However, the pure physicality of checking on a part of the body (like the posture of the shoulders) makes it easier to form the habit of expanding awareness. If you can achieve mindfulness over your shoulders then you can achieve it in the mind as well, its just a matter of time. The second topic I would like to mention is pain. A successful long term relationship with yoga requires an awareness of pain and an intimate understanding of the difference between discomfort and pain. Yoga puts the body into lots of odd poses, many of which can be dangerous if not done correctly. Pain is the point of injury, which must be avoided at all costs. But putting oneself into a pose to an extent which is only a matter of discomfort, however extreme yet short of pain, is extremely beneficial (in terms of increased strength, flexibility, etc). Similarly in GTD there are many principles which emphasize the need to manage and bring closure to the many daily responsibilities which are not necessarily enjoyable (chores, etc). GTD essentially comes at this from two angles; 1) mentally promised reward (think of how much better you will feel to complete something), 2) bite sized chunks, i.e. break a project into such small pieces that each chunk requires no thought (and by extension no emotion) to complete. In my opinion neither is satisfactory, because many of the things we must do are simply not fun, no matter how small the chunk and no matter how much we psych ourselves up for the eventual payoff. Now some of those dreaded action items are there because we have put ourselves into situations which are not evolving us as people (e.g. being in the wrong job for too long). This is self-injury, pain. It must be avoided. But many of those things are merely uncomfortable but have long term benefits. Through the practice of yoga we learn to experience discomfort in the body, and are able to observe its benefits in a direct and timely way, and we also learn to avoid pain at the same time. Eventually this carries over into the management of the "poses of the mind". GTD should not just be a mind hack, its a total life hack. And that means is a body hack also. And, until I have a profound out-of-body experience I remain pretty sure that the physical manifestation of existence is in many ways more fundamental than the cognitive one. » POSTED IN:
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